I can't stop... Came across this in my old blog and it's quite worthy of a re-post.

Prior to the race I reflected on an article a friend sent me this week about what a four-year-old should know (http://www.magicalchildhood.com/articles/4yo.htm). It discusses how "We are such a competitive culture that even our preschoolers have become trophies and bragging rights." Four year olds, and all children for that matter, should know that they are loved, safe, they can trust their instincts, how to laugh and use their imagination, and that the world and they are magical.

The article further discusses what parents should know: that all children learn at their own pace, the single best prediction of academic achievement is reading, that being the smartest or most accomplished kid in class does not equate happiness, that children deserve to be surrounded by books, nature, art supplies and the freedom to explore them, that our children need more of us, and that our children deserve to know that they're a priority for us and that we truly love to be with them.

I cannot agree more with this article . It really hit home for me. I have never been concerned or overwhelmed by the responsibility of raising a child. I have encountered moments when I compare Little M to her peers to make sure she is on the right track, but for the most part I try to stay away from engaging in that behavior. Instead, I have focused on loving her the best way I know how and offering her tools to learn (but being careful not to spoil her). It is nice to know that despite the competitive culture in which we live, there are others out there like me who value the simplicity of loving their children.

My mind wandered from the article back to my race. I hope that Little M's understanding of my racing goals results in an appreciation for exercise, fun, dedication, and perseverance. Though I blog about my race results and awards, I am not really on this journey for the competition. I have to admit, it has been a nice bonus, and I include information about it in the blog so I will remember it when I am 60. I want Little M to know that over the course of this year I have learned so much about myself that only strengthens my ability to help raise her and provide her with the knowledge that she is loved. Most importantly, it is my goal to help teach her how to love herself as that will be the cornerstone of her ability to successfully navigate through her life.